Say this instead:

A wise man, Keith Cameron Smith, in his book, The Top 10 Distinctions between Winners and Whiners once said, and I paraphrase: “Whiners ask disempowering questions; winners ask empowering questions”.

You can still be an overcomer even when you don’t have the answers. Just ask empowering questions (questions that assume there is a solution).
How am I ever going to get in shape? What can I do, that I would enjoy, that would help me get in shape?
Sigh.. I need to lose weight. I will enjoy losing weight.

And speaking of something you would enjoy, have you tried Barre yet? It’s a low impact workout that fuses Ballet conditioning and Pilates at the ballet barre – no dance experience needed 🙂 So try our Passion Barre class for a leaning, strengthening workout with tons of inspiration and solutions to help you rule in life.